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Can’t Sleep? Try These Effective and Safe Options

17 Apr

Chamomile tea is a common relaxation and sleep aid that works.

Adults and children can both have problems sleeping, and the inability to sleep can cause havoc at home, on-the-job, and at school. But in an attempt to solve the problem, adults often turn towards sleeping pills or other over-the-counter sleep aids like Tylenol PM. But people don’t realize that sleeping pills don’t allow for the REM-based sleep that we need to feel rested. Instead, they just knock you out instead of allowing you to experience true, restful sleep.

Better alternatives are techniques and herbs that relax and allow for true sleep. And many of these remedies can be used with children, whose sleep problems are frequently overlooked.

There are three ways to put yourself to sleep without the aid of narcotics: relaxing, aromatherapy, and herbal remedies. Herbal options, which can be taken as teas, pills, and tinctures, don’t prevent REM sleep, and as a result you experience true rest. And these techniques can be used with children, too! Ideally, though, you’ll make relaxing a regular part of your family’s evening routine; some simple changes may prevent the need for any other sleep aids altogether. If you need more help sleeping, though, aromatherapy then herbal aids can help solve your problems.

RELAXANTS

Getting the body and mind physically prepared for sleep may seem like a no-brainer, but as you probably could guess few people do it; the stresses of the day can sometimes be too demanding and relaxing seems like a luxury. In fact, though, a good night’s sleep (and the relaxing that goes with it) is paramount for remaining as productive as possible during the day, and becomes a necessity just like brushing your teeth. Here’s some ways to prepare for sleep, so you and your children can get to sleep and stay that way:

Maintain a regular sleep schedule: Going to bed and getting up at roughly the same times each day is a way to tell the body, “Hey…you’re supposed to be asleep now.” We are creatures of habit, and our bodies do take ques from patterns we set in our lives. Adults benefit from this just as much as children.

Keep your bedroom for sleep…and one other thing: What that other thing is you can guess and it’s between you and your partner. Other than that, sleep should be the only thing going on in the bedroom. No TV, no reading, nothing else. Or if you do read, don’t pick up something that’s going to get your emotions boiling or your interest peaked. For children, choose soothing stories without too much emotion.

Keep your bedroom cooler if you can: We sleep better when we’re cool. It’s as simple as that.

Don’t go to sleep angry: If you have problems with someone you care about, try to solve them. Don’t do it through text or email, either….that solves little. We spend a lot of time now avoiding problems through a computer, yet that just leaves them fester and interrupts our sleep. Don’t be afraid…approach those you’re in conflict with and either clear the air, solve the problem, or move on. Your sleep will thank you for it. Allow your children to do the same before they get their pajamas on.

Scents such as lavender, geranium, and sandalwood can be used in oils, scrubs, sprays and more to enhance restfulness.

AROMATHERAPY

Some people might scoff at the idea that a mere scent can help you sleep. But we are highly wired to scent, and once we smell something (say, a skunk), we never forget what that smell is. Just think of how the smell of a fresh pie or bread in the oven can make you feel. Scents can have the same effect on sleep, and have been used for centuries in different cultures for that very purpose. Aromatherapy will promote relaxation and help calm the mind to enhance restfulness.

Choose scents that are known to promote sleep: Scents such as lavender, clary sage, chamomile, geranium, marjoram, rose, neroli, sandalwood, jasmine, ylang ylang, and bergamot either alone or in combination are great choices for promoting restfulness.

Avoid scents that are stimulating: Invigorating scents like peppermint, grapefruit, rosemary, lemon, or pine should be avoided before you are heading to bed. They are great first thing in the morning, though!

Avoid synthetic scents: Fake scents won’t quite do it. They aren’t real, so they won’t promote real relaxation. Invest in quality essential oils; they last a long time.

Make a bed linen spray: I do this in a small spray bottle with water and several drops of lavender oil. I spritz it on my pillow and sheets before I go to bed if I know I’m in a pattern of waking in the middle of the night. It works.

Scents in the bath: While it’s not a good idea to take a warm bath right before bed (you sleep better when your body is cooler), taking one about an hour before you go to bed and including soothing scents in the bath water does promote both relaxation and provide the benefits of aromatherapy. This is a great way to help relax kids, too.

Scents in the shower: Again, you want to avoid taking a hot shower right before bed, but they’re great an hour before you retire. And a shower is a wonderful place to include scented bath salt scrubs, and scented oils on your skin (and some scents, like sandalwood, are not “girly” for the guy contingent out there).

Scents by the bed: Taking a cotton ball, adding several drops of sleep-inducing scents, and putting the cotton ball next to your pillow is one way to keep the scent close to your nose. You can also create pockets on the underside of your pillow cases and stuff them with herbs, or fill flame-free diffusers with your soothing scent of choice and have it next to the bed. There are many ways to introduce scents into your or your child’s bedroom.

HERBS

When relaxing and soothing scents don’t quite cut it, herbal remedies are there for you. I have a hard time sleeping sometimes, and I keep a bottle of herbal sleep aid by my bed. When I know I’m in a pattern of not sleeping well, I take some before I go to sleep and if I wake up in the middle of the night, I take two more. It makes a world of difference and since I’ve started using herbal remedies I don’t suffer during the day from lack of rest at night.

Valerian is one of the best herbs available to combat sleeplessness.

Herbs can be consumed about 30 minutes before bedtime either in tea form or capsules. You can make either of them yourself, but there are many teas available at even mainstream grocery stores that promote restfulness, such as Celestial Seasonings Sleepytime tea. Stores such as Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods, or local food co-ops carry a much wider array of herbal teas and capsules that treat a variety of things, including insomnia. Here are some common herbs that will help you sleep by reducing anxiety or promoting a sedative effect, among others:

California poppy: This is frequently found in teas and other homeopathic sleep aids, and is appropriate for children and adults alike.

Chamomile: This is a common and well-known sleep aid that is appropriate for both adults and children and is used commonly for this purpose in Europe, Latin America, and elsewhere. Chamomile is great because not only can it be consumed, the oil can also provide relaxing benefits in the bath, in oils, and more.

Hops: Hops is not nearly as well-known as chamomile for it’s soporific properties, but it indeed is known to relieve stress and insomnia. It is frequently used in many tea mixes created for treating sleeplessness.

Kava-kava: This is another popular herb that is used in tea and capsule mixes to promote sleep. You’ll frequently find it along with hops, passion flower, and others on this list for that very purpose.

Passion flower: This is a wonderful treatment for insomnia and sleeplessness, and is included in many herbal teas for that purpose for adults and children alike. In Europe the use of passion flower is much more common than it is here, and there’s a reason for that: it works.

Skullcap: Skullcap is another herb that enhances sleep by reducing anxiety, one of the many reasons people have problems sleeping. It has a similar action to valerian root but, I believe, in a more mild form. Skullcap is another frequent ingredient in sleep-aid teas.

Valerian: This is becoming just as well known for treating sleeplessness as chamomile is. It can frequently be found in capsules created to assist with sleep, and is known to decrease incidents of waking up in the middle of the night. I have found this to be true myself, as I rely on valerian for this purpose when I am in a cycle of sleeplessness. This is one of the best alternatives to drugs because it has a true sedative effect without the side effects of something like Valium. This might not be an appropriate choice for children unless it’s included as a mix in a tea.

Wild lettuce: This produces effects similar to valerian with a focus on enhanced calming, but it is much more mild, making it a good choice for children.

Melatonin: Melatonin isn’t an herb, it’s a natural hormone that promotes regular sleep cycles in our bodies. It is frequently found in concert with valerian in capsule form for as a reliable sleep aid.

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17 responses to “Can’t Sleep? Try These Effective and Safe Options

  1. lindasgarden

    April 17, 2012 at 5:01 pm

    Lovely post and a good read and useful as well i might try some tips as well

     
  2. Bearlakenana

    April 17, 2012 at 5:20 pm

    Thank you for a much needed article. I’ve had sleep problems for the last 30 years. I have tried some of your suggestions in the past and will now add some new ones to my current arsenal. I quit taking sleeping pills and it’s been a rough run.

     
    • Rural Spin

      April 17, 2012 at 5:24 pm

      It can take awhile for the body to recover after one has taken sleeping pills for a length of time…everything has to equalize again. I can imagine it’s been rough! There’s a reasons sleep deprivation is used as a form of torture. Try a collection of these techniques (a relaxant, some aromatherapy, and herbs) to see what works for you. Good luck!

       
  3. Bearlakenana

    April 17, 2012 at 5:25 pm

    I’ve tried some of these in the past and look forward to trying new things. I’ve had sleeping issues for over 30 years and recently quit taking sleeping pills so I need all the help I can get ;-)

     
    • Bearlakenana

      April 17, 2012 at 5:29 pm

      okay, fine example of lack of sleep – two posts; but once again – I really enjoyed it :-)

       
    • Erica

      May 3, 2012 at 2:33 pm

      I was sleepless for years, too. It just about drove me crazy…literally! I tried every herb I could find for sleep, but nothing worked. I did colon and liver cleanses and noticed that it helped a little, but my sleepless nights would soon return. Then one day I started using activated charcoal for an inflammation issue. I took 1/4 cup of the activated charcoal with a large glass of water in between my meals, 3 times a day for 2 weeks. Not only did it wipe out my inflammation issue but, Oh my goodness! I started sleeping through the night again!!! I sleep a good 7 to 8 hours a night now. I hadn’t slept so good for years! I am still enjoying good sleep now. I am off the activated charcoal now, but use it every now and then as needed. Not saying this will work for you, but it did for me!

       
      • Laura

        March 1, 2014 at 8:29 pm

        where do find this activated charcoal?, and also were there side effects, mainly weight gain for me?

         
  4. ybertaud9

    April 18, 2012 at 2:22 pm

    Reblogged this on ByzantineFlowers and commented:
    Wonderful natural tips for sleeplessness…

     
  5. athriftynickel

    May 15, 2012 at 12:07 am

    Thank You!!!! I was looking for some good tips on how to get over insomnia which I have had for the last 10+ years…I have a good night maybe 2 days a week and then I fall back on sleepaids from frustration…I’m gonna give this a try and I will let you know how it goes

     
  6. athriftynickel

    May 15, 2012 at 12:10 am

    Thanks so much for your great articular

     
  7. Roberta St Denis

    July 23, 2012 at 10:09 pm

    Catnip tea also aides relaxing and natural sleep.. It used to b ingredient in sleepy time tea but I no longer c it on the label anymore.. I used to grow my own to use. Now I often pick it when I c it growing wild.

     
  8. KarinSDCA

    July 23, 2012 at 11:53 pm

    Thanks for the great article!

    For my daughter, I make a “sweet dreams” bedtime spray. We go through phases, but she mostly needs it before a big day or in July when she is still in school and it is light late (year-round school, which we love). It has Roman chamomile essential oil (3 drops) and Sweet orange essential oil (6 drops) and water (6 ounces). Spritz around the bedroom before bed. She closes her eyes and begs me to spritz HER too! (It can be “monster” spray for that stage.)

     
    • Rural Spin

      July 24, 2012 at 12:42 pm

      THAT is wonderful! Thank you for sharing!

       
  9. Katie

    October 31, 2012 at 9:04 am

    Reading this, just the idea of so many things to help you sleep, is relaxing to me. That says a lot about how short I am on sleep! Great post.

     
  10. Angel

    July 20, 2014 at 7:38 am

    Have been on Nytol for many years. I am a qualified aromatherapist, alas the lavender does not work for me or the herbal remedies :-( Weaning myself off them and will try the bath shower soak in aromatherapy calming oils, No TV or computer a few hrs before bed or eating. Invested in some black out binds as the natural light can make one not sleep.Thank you for the tips :-)

     

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